---
canonical: https://aderettherapy.com.au/resources/you-had-not-understood/
title: You Had Not Understood
slug: you-had-not-understood
date: 2026-09-02
type: song
status: published
image: hero.jpg
image_alt: Aderet Therapy Weekly video thumbnail for the original song 'You Had Not Understood', 2 September 2026
summary: A tender acoustic folk song for the parent who thought their child was choosing not to try, and then realised the child had not understood.
keywords: understanding first, speech pathology, language and movement, paediatric physiotherapy, paediatric physiotherapy Campbelltown, parenting podcast, original song, children's song, NDIS
youtube: https://youtu.be/DNF3Ggsgiek
---
A tender acoustic folk song for the parent who thought their child was choosing not to try, and then realised the child had not understood. The parent was trying to use too many words and the child was unable to process. 

Aderet Therapy Weekly is a weekly paediatric physiotherapy podcast for parents of babies and young children, made by Aderet Therapy in Campbelltown, in the Macarthur region of NSW. Each episode mixes short talk segments with original songs written for the week's topic. This is a song from the episode "Why Is a Speech Therapist in the Physio Room?".

This has been created with the help of AI.

## Links
- [Aderet Therapy](https://aderettherapy.com.au)
- [Listen to the full episode (Aderet Therapy Weekly, 31 August 2026)](https://open.spotify.com/episode/3M54XMOdCIGivxoDIdUL70?si=ff_WST_DSHuSRoy8JKGqlA)

READ MORE FROM ADERET THERAPY
- [What is a Physiotherapist's role in non-verbal population?](https://aderettherapy.com.au/resources/physio-role-nonverbal/)

## Lyrics

**Verse**

For all those times I thought that you  
were choosing not to try,  
and I was wrong, you had not heard,  
and could not tell me why  


**Chorus**

I gave you far too many words  
and none of them were good,  
you were not being stubborn, love,  
you had not under stood  


**Verse**

I said it, and I drew it too,  
and waited on the stair,  
and then one day you under stood,  
and up you went from there  


**Chorus**

I gave you far too many words  
and none of them were good,  
you were not being stubborn, love,  
you had not under stood  


**Verse**

And now I hear you on the stair  
say what I used to say,  
the words are yours, you took them up  
and carried them away  


**Chorus**

I gave you far too many words  
and none of them were good,  
you were not being stubborn, love,  
you had not under stood  

## Disclaimer
This song and this video are general information. Every child is unique, and nothing here is medical advice or a substitute for a conversation with your GP, your child and family health nurse, or your physiotherapist. The episode this song comes from says what can and cannot be supported by evidence; the song does not make clinical claims.

## About Aderet Therapy
Paediatric physiotherapy for newborns to 18 years: gross motor development, assistive technology, communication physiotherapy, aquatic physiotherapy, key worker early intervention, school holiday programs, and the free Little Movers League community sessions. NDIS, Medicare and private health.
Suite 10, 261 Queen Street, Campbelltown NSW. Wheelchair accessible, free parking.
Phone 02 4949 7276 · info@aderettherapy.com.au · aderettherapy.com.au

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